Gay Marriage

With all the excitement and opposition of gay marriage going around here in Utah, I had some thoughts of my own. I have many questions, here are some:
Some people believe that homosexuals are going to go to hell for being a homosexual. A man should be with a woman, no exception. Except, what about people who are born with both male and female genitalia? What  choice do they have? Are they the only ones that don't have their sexual orientation predetermined for them? Since they have both genitalia, they get the choice of either one? If sexual orientation is so black and white, how is it that there are people with XXY and XO chromosomes? How are they going to get through the gates of Heaven? Most of the time when children are born with both genitalia, the Dr. will remove one of the two types. Is it at this time that their sexual orientation is determined? The Dr., a mere mortal determines that this person is a male therefore establishing that this person must mate with a female? When the Dr. could have just as easily removed the other type of genitalia? Is it he who decides the fate of the soul of this infant? And if this were true, that a Dr. can determine the proper sex of a person, why can't others? Is a medical degree required for such things? Would it be wrong for a man who loves other men to get a sex change? Would she then qualify to walk through the pearly gates? Changing her genitalia to "fit" her sexual orientation? Just a few thoughts of mine.